Wednesday, 27 December 2006

Good Irish Craic!!

As usual, there
is never a dull
moment in the Whalen Household!
Our friends Ted and Kathleen, from the "old country", came over for dinner. We always have a great time with these great friends!! My mom's parents, Alfie and Nellie Porter, were born in Northern Ireland, so it is always special to have good "craic" with our fellow countrymen!!!

First Snowfall of the Season


Out of coffee this morning, I frantically got ready in order to quickly consume a Tim Horton's "extra-large, black, double cupped coffee before I had a caffeine meltdown. To my surprise, I found my car covered in snow! As excited as I was for our first snowfall of the season, I was a bit miffed as it meant more of a delay in getting me closer to my coffee!!! "All is well that ends well..." Coffee in hand. Snow Angel made. Life is grand!

Boxing Day Bash at Aunt Edna's and Gary's!!





Last night, my parents and I ventured out to the tiny hamlet of Gore's Landing on the shores of Rice Lake to visit my Aunt Edna and Gary! Aunt Edna is my dad's youngest sibling out of nine children born to Joe and Elsie Whalen of Caplin Cove, Newfoundland. I always love being around Dad's brothers and sisters as the "yarns" and jokes come flooding incessently out of their mouths! I hear "yarns" I have never heard before and I also hear the same "yarns" over and over again! I don't mind though as we are always guaranteed laughter, music and great food!!!:) (It wouldn't be a true Newfoundland gathering without a large assortment of food that could feed an entire town!!) In keeping with tradition, my time at Aunt Edna's did not disappoint me!! We had a wonderful evening and I'm grateful for extended family! It continually reminds me of my roots, where I came from and is part of who I am!!

Tuesday, 26 December 2006

Part 2 Photo Album of the 2006 Whalen Family Christmas!!










Happy Boxing Day!!

For those of you reading my blog who do not know what Boxing Day is and why we Canadians celebrate, here is a little history lesson for you:

"While the exact origins of the holiday are obscure, it is likely that Boxing Day began in England during the Middle Ages.
Some historians say the holiday developed because servants were required to work on
Christmas Day, but took the following day off. As servants prepared to leave to visit their families, their employers would present them with gift boxes.
Church Alms Boxes
Another theory is that the boxes placed in churches where parishioners deposited coins for the poor were opened and the contents distributed on December 26, which is also the Feast of
St. Stephen.
As time went by, Boxing Day gift giving expanded to include those who had rendered a service during the previous year. This tradition survives today as people give presents to tradesmen, mail carriers, doormen, porters, and others who have helped them."


So, Happy Boxing Day to one and all!!!:)

Well, the Whalen Family had a great Christmas and we all survived the mayhem!! I enjoyed having my two neices ( ages 17 and 15) and nephew ( age 11) with us and watching Christmas through their eyes. ( although it was a bit crazy!!;)) I trust you and your family had a wonderful Christmas and best wishes for the coming year!!!

I have enclosed some photos for your perusal from the mayhem at the Whalen household!!!:)




Wednesday, 20 December 2006

Visions of Sugar Plums Dance in my Head

Wishing I was lying on this beach, instead of lying sick in bed! I have the greatest intentions of finishing my last minute Christmas preparations, but I have been down with this horrible bacterial infection. We thought I had pneumonia, but it turns out I have a bad case of bronchitis, with a touch of the flu and touch of a bad cold mixed in!!! I have been off work now for 3 days, but do hope to return tomorrow. Unfortunately, I have had to miss many pre-Christmas celebrations and the pre-Christmas frenzy at the mall! At first ,I was saddened by the decline in my social calendar, but have had a great deal of time on my hands reflecting on the true reason for this Christmas season. If the baking, shopping, partying, wrapping, eating, and other various pre-Christmas preparations don't get done, then I am okay with that! So often we are too wrapped up ( no pun intended!!) in all the goings on of the Christmas season, that we forget why we celebrate!! This sickness has been a good lesson for me to learn to just let go and be in the moment, enjoying the season! For now, I can allow the "visions of sugar plums NOT to dance in my head!!" Have a Merry Christmas one and all, celebrating our Saviour's birth!!!

Sunday, 17 December 2006

Life Lessons from a Toilet Stall!


A thought popped in my head this morning as I read my devos from "Echoes of Eternity" ( Blue Edition). "S" ( a former autistic student of mine) always said to me, as she was standing in the toilet stall ready to do her thing, " S's here Miss Whalen!" While this was obvious to me, she wanted to let me know. She found comfort in letting me know she was there. Admidst her anxiety about the toilet, she reminded herself too that it would all be okay. She wanted the reassurance that I was not going anywhere and that I would guide her through the "journey."
God gently reminded me this morning that He's here in my life. He's not going anywhere. Admidst my anxiousness, worries, lack of faith, stress, etc., God is here and is not going anywhere. He is my guide through this journey of life! So now every time "S" says to me, " S's here Miss Whalen, " I will remember : "God is here Miss Whalen!"
I remember my friend Jorgen telling me once that God shows up in the little people of this world! Even though "S" has special needs, God shows up! For that I am thankful!

My Paintings - Part 2

I wanted to give you a little history of my paintings in the other blog entry, but I hit a wrong button and my blog was published before I could finish!! So, here is a brief history...

Painting 1: Painted from a photo of Duck Harbour, Cape Cod, June 2005. My first trip to the Cape was an incredible experience. I LOVE the ocean and Duck Harbour was my favourite cove nestled among the sand dunes along the "bay " side of the Cape!!

Painting 2: I did this for my life-long friend, Lisa, who is openning a salon and spa in her home. The quote painted on the comb and scissors says, " A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the tune." Surrounding the comb/scissors are copies of songs that have meant a great deal to us over the years.

Painting 3: A couple of years ago, I (along with my youth group...I was a youth leader) attended one of Chris Tomlin's concerts in Toronto. It was evident that night that Chris, his band and the speaker (Louie Giglio) were following the leading of the Spirit. They let go of their agenda and followed God's leading.
That night, God moved in me in a way I couldn't verbally express. I am not one for going up to the altar...I am more private...but that night...I was pushed with the crowd and ended up at the front. I forget exactly what Louie preached on but at the end, he asked for all the youth leaders to come forward. Even though I was already up there, God prompted me to "go forward." I just kneeled on the floor, unable to move and couldn't stop weeping...they were God tears. It was a real healing time for me. Chris was singing "How Great is Our God." God has gifted Chris and his band mates as songwriters. It excites me that God uses this medium to reveal Himself to us...very powerful!
After that evening, I wanted a way to explain this "God moment" that took place, but, as I said, I couldn't verbally say it, so I thought I would try my hand at painting my experience. I just had started leaning how to paint. What a neat experience I had...another way God spoke to me!!! Another neat thing( well for me anyway!!:) ) was I had forgotten what song Chris had sung for the "altar call" ...I hadn't heard it before....so I was excited when we sang it at our church a few months later!!!!

My Paintings











Another goal on my list of "Things to do before I Die" was to take art classes. Here are some of the results!! I always knew I was creative, but had no idea I could draw/paint. I do feel proud of these accomplishments. I also took a Life Drawing class, which was an adventure in and of itself! I don't think I should post those drawings here, though!!!:)




Wednesday, 13 December 2006

An Attempt at Songwriting!!

One item on my "Things I Want to do Before I Die " list is to try songwriting!! I do think songwriting is a gift you are born with, but feel you can learn to write songs! So, I thought I would give it a try. Here is my first attempt at a song! I don't have the music to it yet, although I do have some ideas floating around my head!!! This song was inspired by one of my students who has autism. I worked with her for 3 years and grew to love her like my own daughter. As a single woman, I feel so blessed that God puts children in my life, so I can love them, learn from them and enjoy them, just like they were my own!! This young, autistic student of mine, who is now becoming a woman, delights everyone that crosses her path. She is a gift from God! I dedicate this song to her!!! If you want to learn more about Autism, check out, www.autism.net or www.autismtoday.com.


"A black-haired little girl with a joyful grin,
Lights up the room as she walks in.
Proudly standing, O Canada she sings,
Thinking about her favourite things.
Nail polish, lip gloss, clickity shoes,
Boy whales, girl whales,
Miss Whalen whales too.
Excited about the day ahead,
She soons checks to see what she has read.
'Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What do you See?'
Her favourite storybook she rhymes off with glee!
Quickly her thoughts turn to that magic hour (9:30)
When new toilets, especially white toilets, have all the power.
Flush, flush, flushing we go,
'Don't waste the water...no, no, no.'
Finally, ready to work with all her might,
Enthusiastically she perseveres until she gets it right.
A black -haired little girl with a joyful grin,
Lights up the room as she walks in."

Sunday, 10 December 2006

First Light!!

Here is a photo of our ensemble singing for our Christmas program at church. We sing a song called "Jesus, Jesus, O What a Wonderful Child!" Can you spy me? I am on the far right!! Our group, First Light, has been together for about 3 years now.

Saturday, 9 December 2006

Out of the Mouth of Babes!!!

It has been a crazy week both at work and in my extra-curricular life!!! At work, my students have been "challenging" and are most likely ready for the Christmas holidays!! ( Are we allowed to admit we are counting the days until the holidays too!!!) As much as my students can drive me crazy, I have to admit that on many occasions, they make me smile - sometimes even roll on the floor laughing!! For most of my day as an Educational Assistant, I work in a special needs class. The other part of my day is varied, but his year, I am with the grade 4's. I guess in most professions you need to have a sense of humour, but I feel it is especially needed in the education profession. ( Yes, I am biased!!!) I was glad there were many laughable moments in the midst of a chaotic week. Some of the best moments I cannot share here, but I will tell you of a conversation I had with one of my students in the grade 4 class!!! He is just a regular kid that needs some extra help! He makes me smile everyday and I so enjoy working with him, even though he needs many prompts to remain focused!!:) His timing of interesting comments is not great...they usually come when the teacher is in the middle of her lesson. Not surprising, a few weeks ago, in the middle of a math lesson, this student leaned over to me and asked me, in a loud, booming voice ( I think he has a bit of a hearing problem:)) , what my blood type was. He proceeded to tell me his blood type before I could re-direct him to listen to the lesson! Now, the whole class knows his blood type and that he thinks his blood type changed last summer when he got bitten by a mosquito!!!:) So, this week, in the middle of a science lesson, this student looks down at his hand and asks me, " Miss Whalen, why is your hand a different colour than mine? What are those things on your hand and arm? ( Dont' be alarmed...he was just referring to my freckles!!!) " For those of you that know me, you know I love to talk too and was dying to answer his question right there in the middle of the science lesson, but I had to tell him to wait until we could talk at recess. Little did this sweet boy know how profound his question and the implications to it was!! Oh the innocence! He has known me for 2 years and only this week noticed the difference in the colour of our skin. He never passed judgement nor will he, I believe. He accepts me for who I am and he knows I accept him for who he is...who God created him to be. I'm so glad God uses children to teach me lessons. He gently reminded me, through the ramblings of this little boy, that He accepts me for who I am -- everthing about me, even when I disappoint Him. For that, I am grateful! Amazing grace!!
Well, I must go as I am singing again tonight in our church choir Christmas presentation. I am still fighting this chest infection, so am praying my coughing episodes will be kept to a minimum!!! It is a wonderful presentation this year celebrating our Saviour's birth!!!

Monday, 4 December 2006

The firefighters saved the day!

I thought I had died and gone to heaven today! A handful of tall, handsome firefighters showed up at my parents senior's condo shortly after I had arrived!! (What is it about men in uniform!!!:)) We heard the fire trucks stop outside the building, but weren't too concerned as we thought it was just a medical call. But, I had smelled smoke in the corridor earlier and thought it was just the aroma coming from the chimneys of the nearby homes. Incidently, we were wrong and there was an actual fire outside on the patio. The fire inspector suspects young people set the fire on purpose. As fun and exciting this little adventure was, I realized things could have been far worse. The fire was set near a gas barbeque , which was under the roof of the apartment. building. It saddens me to think that the young people who purposely set this fire thought this prank was a funny thing to do. I realize the majority of young people don't think of the consequences ( after all I used to be a teenager not that long ago!!!) and just want to have some fun. But, I wish they would come up with alternative pranks that won't endanger the lives of innocent people, especially senior citizens. I am grateful that we were spared and am grateful for the fire fighters who saved the day!!! My heartfelt thanks goes out to all the firefighters who risk their lives daily to protect us from danger!!

Sunday, 3 December 2006

Life's a Beach

I was immediately intrigued by this elderly couple as I was nearby basking in the summer sunshine and breathing in the aroma of the salt air. I LOVE the ocean and was taking every advantage of that glorious August day on the Cape.
Aging is something that has been on my mind lately, mostly because I am nearing middle age and also my parents and our life -long family friends are nearing the end of their life. I loved the fact that this couple on the beach were taking time to enjoy their retirement years. They were taking the time to sit in quietness and enjoy the beauty of this earth and the beauty of each other. They looked content. They looked happy. They looked relaxed and calm. They were enjoying the moment.
I was saddened last week when I had a conversation with one of my parent's friends, who is at the beginning stages of alzheimer's. As I drove home, I started to weep thinking about this man and how his life is changing. It makes me sad to think I am at this stage in my life where I am losing those family friends who have been part of my life forever. I know that is the circle of life, but it is a difficult time of transition because I still feel like that little girl who was in awe of these precious friends. These life long friends were the strong ones, the ones who paved the way for us, the ones who believed in us and spurred us on. They were the ones who knew us at every awkward stage in our life and loved us through them!!! They were the prayer warriors and ones whose strong faith in Jesus guided them through their "adventurous" journey.
I am struck with the thought that I have to continue the legacy and pass on the torch to those who come behind me. Although I am not married, I feel I have a responsibility to my neices, nephews, god-daughter, and my many other "adopted" children to be the life long, faith-filled, prayer warrior, fun friend I was so fortunate to have surround me on my journey. I am striving to live everyday of my life as an new adventure ready to be explored. There are no guarantees in this life. I don't know when God will call me home. I may not have tomorrow. So, as I near "middle age", I want to be like that Cape Cod couple on the beach and make sure I enjoy every moment God gives me. Breathe. Relax. Soak in. Live.